Why Can’t Medium/Psychic Read For Me?

There are various reasons a medium or psychic would refuse or be unable to do a reading for you and yet the first thing everyone always thinks if it happens to them is, ‘Oh, goodness, they’ve seen I’m going to die and so they can’t see anything ahead of me.’ This really isn’t why it is at all and sadly, most of them don’t, or won’t, tell you why they aren’t doing you a reading and this just causes worry and upset for the one who is turned away. Even if they do tell you why, most will go away worried and think the above anyway.

Sometimes, it is just because the energy is wrong, don’t ask me why as this is one of those things we can’t explain and shouldn’t even bother trying to. It can also be because you are being too demanding or aggressive with your wants and will not listen to how a reading is done only expecting what you want not what you need or will get, it could be the psychic or medium is coming down with something and just isn’t aware (as the gifts will often be taken while we’re ill) or all manner of things. It can even be that the medium concerned is overworking and so the gifts have been put to rest forcibly to make them rest or it might be you just are not meant to have a reading for whatever reason.

If a medium or psychic overworks, it is not unusual for the gifts they’re using to suddenly stop for a while until they get some rest and re-charge their energy levels. Likewise, we can have some people come to us who only want to hear one thing and nothing more – they rarely get it. Then there are those who come too often or who we can see is going to run their life dependant on what we say to them. I will never read for people like this and no responsible person would.

If you go for a reading and they say they can’t or won’t read for you, ask them why it is. Don’t go off worrying yourself sick that you’re about to die as no one would want you to be so upset, it will often just be they haven’t explained the reasons to you very well or at all. It isn’t a regular occurence by any means, but it can happen and if you are the sort who goes for readings regularly, you’ll probably have it happen to you one day.

There is the odd occasion when we hear of people who no one at all seems to be able to read for and this is a more tricky one.  I know of one person who has gone from psychic to medium over many years since her twenties and never has one of them been able to read for her. Whilst this is very rare, it can happen – why is this? I have no idea, but I never question God in His wisdom. If this person, or any other, cannot be read for, there has to be a reason and we just have to trust what that reason is, after all, God (or the higher energy) knows the full picture about that person and we don’t. Even though she has never been able to be read for in all her life, she is now well into her 60’s and hasn’t died, so you see, not being able to be read for is not a death sentence. If it happens to you, it might be disappointing, but it really isn’t the end of your world despite you thinking it might be.

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8 responses to “Why Can’t Medium/Psychic Read For Me?

  1. This is a beautifully accurate description as to why I have personally turned away clients and to why many of my students have as well. Thank you for writing.


  2. Hello Pia,
    Nothing about this is correct and screams of phoney mediums. No one can ‘steal your energy’. If you fainted, it was due to something very different, or they were calling up bad things. Says it all about their healing sessions doesn’t it? You’re still there after such a bad experience??!!!
    ALL people do who ‘call up’ spirits. Nothing done in classes, booked readings to set times, demonstrations to set times or anything else is natural. It is all forced and bringing forth spirits that are not of God and are set to deceive by those desperate to be seen to talk to the dead!!! If that’s what they want – and it seems most today do – then that’s up to them, but it is from satan not God and is done to tempt (as it does) and gets everyone addicted to mediumship.
    Anyone not addicted or already caught in the trap of false ways would already have run a mile from the places you’ve been and the people doing it. Why are you still having anything to do with them or this false stuff that is nothing like mediumship and true healing?
    Spirits from God come to us IF we are naturally gifted. We should NEVER call them up and this is what they are doing. Spirits of God are nothing about giving messages in set readings, entertainment (as all is today) for fun or anything else. It is to make people become closer t God and to become better people.
    What we see everywhere today, is people doing it for money, fame, glory and to get everyone addicted to it so they come back for more and more. People such as the one you describe here are also dangerous for the fact they teach such rubbish as you’ve been told about your energy being stolen etc.
    Saying your negative energy is stopping her reading you and bringing bad things to you – what a load of old tosh and how wicked. You trust this person?! If you have blocked anything (which I doubt you have knowingly as you’re still associating with them), then it is happening naturally and a good thing. It means you aren’t allowing the bad stuff they’re bringing forward anywhere near you.
    I would say run a mile from this nonsense and leave well alone. This is NOTHING like natural ability or even forced ability in any sense of the word. If any medium leaves you wanting to go for more readings to them or anyone else, leaves you wanting more messages or to become a medium or healer, then none of them is a true medium working with or for God. A true medium leaves you feeling at peace and contented inside with no need to search for anything more. The fact everyone keeps searching and needing to ask questions such as you have, shows how fake it is and that it is not from anything good. Please, walk away and place your trust in God for what it is you’re seeking. If you need any more help, I’m always available to help where I can


  3. Pia Martabit

    i was told by a friend that goes to medium regularly that she showed a picture of me and some other friends. she read the others, but she wasn’t able to read me. she told my friend that i was blocked by negative energy that was put on me and that is why bad things happen to me (ok… bad things happen but the regular kind. yes life has been hard for me… maybe more than my peers but it relative, i don’t live in the middle east for crying out loud) . She told me to go to her for a cleanse or something. The thing is that once i was involve in healing sessions and the medium told me i was kind of sensible… once a new guy in this sessions stole my energy and i fainted. I didn’t want to come back. I continue my relationship with the medium and she could read me just fine. I don’t know if i can trust this medium. Is this a thing? or can it be because i blocked her? because i sense i have this ability to block things… :(


  4. Hi just came across your site love your opinion and outlook on life you are a very strong person. I was born with my gifts and am finally coming into realization of them. Will be looking into your book.


  5. Thank you for writing this. I’ve been working for many years and had my first person who I couldn’t read for and found it deeply disturbing. Had I not had a client straight afterwards I would have walked away from that experience concerned I’d lost my gifts. Thank you for writing this it puts my mind at ease somewhat.

    The only thing that I was aware of was that her energy was very slow and I wondered if that can effect it?? But I’m not sure why it would effect it as when people have slower energy normally I just work slightly differently.

    Hopefully she didn’t walk away worried she didn’t have a future, that never occurred to me. Thank you,xx


  6. My 5 year old feline nephew, Mordred, wants to spend time with me but is terrified of beings that surround me. I have demanded the beings to f— off and have tried to teach Mordred to do the same. A christian spiritualist reverend told me it’s all my fault for being too negative and sending out wrong energies. That’s funny as everyone at work thinks i’m very positive. Please help.


  7. The last time i thought of having a reading I went along with a friend to her friends house , the lady reading was upstairs and another lady was in a down stairs room doing healing … she did about 4 different people and I was having a lovely evening . Just before it was my turn the lady came down stairs and asked me to excuse her from doing a reading as she was a bit worn out and she looked at me and said she didnt realy think I needed a reading right then anyway … Thing was she was correct I really did have a lovely time and didnt feel I needed to have a reading at all …x


  8. How very interesting, thanks for explaining that Lorraine.


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